Surrogacy is a deeply emotional journey. Whether you are exploring it, in the middle of it, or processing what came before — you are not alone. Below are trusted resources for emotional support.
If you need immediate support
If you are in crisis or having thoughts of self-harm, please reach out to a local crisis line. International directory: findahelpline.com
International support organisations
Resolve.org — National Infertility Association (US)
Peer support, online communities, and access to therapists specialising in fertility and family-building.
Fertility Network UK
Free helpline, online and in-person support groups across the UK, and qualified fertility counsellors.
Postpartum Support International (PSI)
Specialised in post-surrogacy depression and emotional adjustment after baby arrives. International helpline.
More to Life
Support for those processing infertility journeys, including those whose paths did not result in parenthood.
European resources
🇩🇪 Germany — Wunschkind e.V.
The largest German-language community for intended parents. Forums, peer support, and meetups.
🇫🇷 France — MAIA Association
French association supporting individuals and couples through fertility challenges, including surrogacy considerations.
Surrogacy-specific support
Surrogacy360 (Center for Genetics and Society)
Independent, ethics-focused information about international surrogacy. Useful for considering the broader picture.
The Bridge to Family
Specialised psychological support for intended parents and their families throughout the surrogacy journey.
Books and reading
- "The Surrogacy Handbook" — practical guide for intended parents
- "Building Your Family Through Surrogacy" — emotional preparation
- "Talking to Your Children About Their Birth Story" — for after the baby arrives
Support from our team
Novaparent provides access to licensed psychologists experienced in surrogacy throughout your journey with us. Your personal coordinator is also available to talk through concerns at any stage.
If you would like a confidential conversation with our psychological support team, contact:
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- Through your personal coordinator
You are not alone
Many couples on the surrogacy journey describe feeling isolated — friends and family may not understand. These resources exist precisely because so many others have walked this path before you. Reach out. Connect. You will find your community.
Disclaimer
The resources listed are independent organisations. Novaparent does not control their content or services and recommends them based on general reputation. Always vet any service or therapist independently.